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Likelenses 09 Jul 2014, 18:06
I think that it is a fair question due to the fact that Carrie seems to enjoy flaunting her lesbian affair with a great amount of detail.So she has created some questions.
I have wondered what role she plays in this affair.
Dave 09 Jul 2014, 01:37
I couldn't agree more with Curt, you bitter s.o.b. It's as if something grotesque crawled up inside of you and died leaving you with a toxic residue which you feel a need to spread.
Carrie's posts are insightful, charming, and grammatically correct. (Please note, I used the Oxford comma.) Go away and stay away if you've nothing positive to say.
09 Jul 2014, 01:20
It is a legitimate question, Curt. Does Carrie wear a strap-on? But never mind about that. I really don't want to suffer through three paragraphs of rambling to get a bullshit answer from some grammatically challenged flunkie. Let's discuss something more pressing such as this site does not have better controls to vet stupid discussions like whether a lesbian likes a fake cock inside her?
Curt 08 Jul 2014, 20:58
08 Jul 2014, 00:44
Your last post,with all of the details,got me curious. Is it your girlfriend that wears a strap on,or is it you,or do your switch?
Mark 05 Jul 2014, 07:53
It was Tom's wife the one who sneaked around the house.
My sister in law glasses were -1,50, she used to wear them only when studying because she was a little shy about them. I remember once I was driving and she was in the car that she was squinting a lot to see through the window. After some time, my girlfriend (who also was in the car) suggested wearing the glasses. She put them on, but as soon we arrived the family meeting we were going she took them off.
As time passed and she became more myopic (I think around -2,50) she became a full time wearer, but most of the time she wears contacts.
The glasses I bought for my wife are not all OTC readers, she has a range going from -5,50 till +3,50. Obviously, the ones she prefer are a -0,25 black cat eyes with orange inside. When we go to the movies she always takes those glasses because she enjoys driving me crazy in public spaces.
Soundmanpt 04 Jul 2014, 15:50
Clearly your wife has much more than a passing interest in glasses and it doesn't even seem that she is only trying on and wearing glasses for your pleasure, but more for her own pleasure. We have seen in here from time to time where people will often nosy around someone else's bathroom maybe checking the prescription of unopened contacts or even trying on a pair of glasses left in the bathroom. But your wife is way more daring by actually going into some of her friends handbags and drawers looking for glasses to try on. If she were ever caught it could be very embarising and she could even be arrested for stealing because they would probably think she was looking for money. No doubt since you know about these things your wife has told you about doing these things? Since she does know how much you enjoy seeing her wearing glasses have you ever suggested getting her her own glasses to wear so she maybe would stop going through other peoples things before she gets caught. Nowadays many people have video equipment all over their house in case of robbery. I'm sure she wouldn't want to end up a star in such a video.
The glasses she "borrowed" for a week, were they weak enough that she could wear them and see okay with them or weer they a bit too strong for her eyes? Maybe sit down with her and have her look at all the great glasses she could get from Zenni. They even have an option she may enjoy playing with as well. She can post her picture in there and actually try on glasses that way to see how they look on her.
Crystal Veil 04 Jul 2014, 04:36
a small contribution to your survey. The word "fetish" is never used in my relation. To me, glasses are the proverbial cherry on the cake - I simply love it when my life partner wears her -12 glasses during the day. It's great to have a partner with two entirely different faces (daytime vs night time). There is nothing like a fetish from her side but she enjoys the luxury of having the choice between half a dozen glasses nowadays. When we first met, she simply used her glasses because dry eyes made the use of contact lenses problematic. She was reassured that I liked her in glasses. When my photography project started, she was my first model and she never stopped supporting me. Gradually I noticed that the project gave her a more self assured attitude towards her looks in glasses and she now says that she would never switch back to contact lenses. She will have her 60th birthday on Sunday, a big garden party with a lot of live music, and she asked me to bring along a nice pair of green cat eye glasses to match her green dress. So far, these cat eye glasses are only used for photo shoots but they have her prescription for long distance. She now uses half a dozen Zenni pairs in daily life and enjoys having so much choice, a luxury unknown to her before the project started. I look forward to see her in the extravagant cat eye glasses at the garden party, especially as she requested me to bring them along. Nice!
Tom 04 Jul 2014, 03:14
My wife does not exactly have a glasses fetish herself, in the sense that she is especially attracted by guys in glasses, but she gets very excited by trying on other people's glasses. Either by commenting ladies on their glasses, and eventually be in a position they are handed over to her for a try, or by doing so more secretly.
For example, when at friends of whom she knows they wear glasses, she always looks for spare glasses in the houses (handbags, kitchens, bathrooms and bedrooms are the best places) to quickly try on. Now that some friends of hers are in their late thirties or early forties, reading glasses become a more common item also.
A good friend of hers, who is a full time wearer of moderately minus glasses, is very fashion conscious and buys a new pair almost every year. She van be seen in different pairs often, as she also still uses her older specs. Meaning her house, handbag, car,... are good places to find glasses, and because there are so many of them, my wife even managed to "borrow" a nice pair of glasses recently for a week. She returned them of course, but her friend never noticed. We had some fun evenings with those specs at home :)
Soundmanpt 28 Jun 2014, 11:42
From what you described back when you were still dating your future wife it seems like you both had a glasses fetish and still do? But having her wear over the counter readers i'm sure only blurs her vision for anything more than a couple of feet away. If you like how your wife looks wearing glasses and want her to even wear them more often you should probably go on line and order her some glasses in either a -.75 or -1.00 prescription. Her eyes would have no problem at all adjusting to them.
Was she sure her sister's glasses were -1.50 and not +1.50? If she only wore them when she was studying they were more likely +1.50. A -1.50 she would need for distance and certainly for driving.
Carrie 28 Jun 2014, 10:11
Mark - my girlfriend doesn't know about my fetish although she knows that glasses certainly don't put me off a woman as she wears glasses full time. She uses her glasses as a signal to me that she wants more than just cuddling on the sofa! She will just give me a certain look and then the glasses come off. Sometimes she takes them off quickly sometimes it's slowly. Then she goes a bit feisty and assertive (quite unlike how she is the rest of the time) and I have to quickly take my glasses off as we don't always bother to wait until we get to our bedroom! She knows all of that is a massive turn-on for me. I do a similar thing to her except I go all submissive (I am quite a feisty lady, so I've been told) and she loves that!
Most of the women I fancy wear glasses but no one seems to have noticed that so I do deliberately get seen checking out non-glasses wearing women just make sure the balance of glasses to non-glasses seems about right.
I consider myself very lucky to have a beautiful and sexy girlfriend who wears (and needs) glasses. As I've said on Eyescene before, I'd still fancy her as much if she didn't wear glasses.
Mark, you should also consider yourself very lucky that your wife understands your fetish and is happy to wear glasses she doesn't need for you. Several people on Eyescene have partners who wear glasses because they need them but I don't know if anyone else has a partner like your wife. May you both have a very long and happy marriage!
Mark 24 Jun 2014, 04:04
Little survey: Does your partner knows about your glasses fetish? How did she/he reacted when you told him/her about it?
In my case, both my wife and I have perfect vision. She knows I love how she looks in glasses but the word "fetish" was never mentioned.
It all started years ago when we were dating. We were in her house where she lived with her parents and sister. Her sister wore -1,50 glasses and used to wear them when studying.
It was about 2 AM, my girlfriend and I were watching a movie in her house. I told her I had my sight a little tired and she replied that maybe I needed glasses. In the table near the couch were her sister's glasses so I took them and tried them on. My gf told me I looked funny, so I replied her to try them and she answered that her sister didn't want anyone to try her glasses. I said "come on!" and put them on her. I remember her saying that she thought the glasses were weaker. When she was going to remove them I told her I loved how she looks with them and asked her to leave them. We watched the movie till the end with my girlfriend wearing those glasses. The next times we were alone in her house she used to have fun wearing the glasses. After a few weeks I bought her some OTC readers. I remember her saying I was crazy but she liked them.
Since then, time has passed, we married, we have a collection of about 10 glasses and she sometimes wears them when we are alone.
GL 25 May 2014, 23:47
Glasses are sexy. Licking thick myopic glasses is 'fun'. If you agree, then you can email me at: firstname.lastname@example.org
Mike 30 May 2013, 06:38
sexy sighting yesterday. Young girl about 18 years in sexy clothes and 4 inch heels borrowed glsses from a friend in a cafe. I sit the table next to them. The power of the glasses were about -3/-4. She try them on for more than five minutes and she looks very nice in them. She said to her friend that they made her sighting not very comfortable but she was able to see things in distance very clearly.
smithie 20 May 2013, 01:23
same for me, jak
Bill 18 May 2013, 01:23
jak, I certainly have one!
jak 17 May 2013, 10:41
matthewson, it's not unusual to have a fetish, a glasses fetish, many on here are the same
matthewson 17 May 2013, 10:36
ordered a pair of bifocals online, i don't need them but I LOVE wearing them when I don't know anyone. Don't know why that's such a turn on, but being around strangers wearing lined bifocals is a good feeling
Astra 15 May 2013, 05:28
previous post is by me.
15 May 2013, 05:28
Re: Cactus Jack 27 Mar 2013, 11:50
I agree it is nothing mysterious. We can calculate the value using this online calculator, the method is the same:
If my post before felt like a bit mysterious, it's because I described the feeling seeing thru the image. my feelings are subjective , varies with time and not always rational.
lazysiow 06 Apr 2013, 12:18
I've started using this line ;)
"Your glasses are not a bug, they're a feature"
Chad 27 Mar 2013, 13:31
That's why progressives are so good. You don't have to slide the glasses down and your eyes and brain coordinate as to what part of the lens to look through. I think they were an inqenious invention.
Cactus Jack 27 Mar 2013, 12:00
Come to think of it, sliding your glasses down your nose can also help a person who wears plus glasses read also, again if the prescription is high enough. Anything to avoid the dreaded bifocals or, horror of horrors, trifocals.
Cactus Jack 27 Mar 2013, 11:54
Another thought. Letting minus glasses slide down your nose has the same optical effect as wearing the dreaded bifocals to help you read, IF you have a significant MINUS prescription.
Cactus Jack 27 Mar 2013, 11:50
If your prescription is more than +/-5.00 vertex distance (the distance from your cornea to the back surface of your glasses) begins to play a role in the "effective" power of your glasses. The magnitude of the effect is the square (^2) of the sphere prescription, though cylinder can come into play if it is over 5.00.
When your glasses slide down your nose, you are increasing the vertex distance from the usual 12 mm or so, which is pretty close to the vertex distance for either trial lens frames or phoropters, you are DECREASING the effective power of your glasses if you wear minus lenses and INCREASING the effective power of your glasses if you wear plus lenses.
You can calculate the approximate power change by squaring the sphere power and dividing the result by 1000. This number is the amount of the effective power decrease or increase per mm.
For example, with Astra's -5.5 it would be (5.5 x 5.5 = 30.25 / 1000 = .03025) 0.030 x 20 mm or effectively 0.60 diopters LESS if the glasses slid down the nose 20 mm or -4.90 diopters. With JD's -10.75 the effect is significantly greater because of the square function at work. Here is the math. 10.75 x 10.75 = 115.5625 / 1000 = 0.116 per mm. If JDs glasses slid down the nose 20 mm the effective power of the glasses would be -8.43 (0.116 x 20 = 2.32).
Remember when doing the calculations the - or + on the prescription is lost and you have to reapply the correct sign on the final result. Just apply the vertex distance effects to the original prescription as described above by DECREASING or INCREASING the number as appropriate.
BTW, this is the same calculation used for determining the difference between a refracted or glasses prescription and a Contact Lens prescription and the reason CL prescriptions are LOWER for minus prescriptions and HIGHER for plus prescriptions.
Probably more than you wanted to know, but there it is anyway. Nothing mysterious going on, just optics at work.
varifocals 27 Mar 2013, 11:44
JD very true.
Much easier with minus lens too.
JD 27 Mar 2013, 10:09
Astra, I agree with you. I really like to let my glasses slide down my nose often to notice things get blurry. I find it very stimulating as well (I'm -10.75). I wear my glasses fairly loose just so they will slide down. I also like to see other people (women) that do the same. Obviously the higher the Rx the better, as it is obvious to me how much different the acuity of their vision will be. Fascinating!
Olek 26 Mar 2013, 15:28
Smoking GWG from Norway
Astra 26 Mar 2013, 05:19
Have not talk about my own fetish for a while.
we all know when myopia increases we would become more dependent on the lenses. When we have lower rx we can have the lenses farther away and still see okay (maybe still 20/25 or 20/30) ...
I have around -5.5 right now it is a lot more restricted (dependent) , even pulling the lenses 2 cm away the image are already noticeably distorting and shifting in position, with the acuity drops down to roughly 20/50 , and i can feel the lenses become a lot weaker by positioning it 2 cm away, or simply let it slide down and sits at the nose tip.
We have seen in some slutty poses, gwg sliding their frame to the nose tip, or adjusting lenses deliberately..
but some gwg use low minus rx or plano lenses, most important is the image shift being very mild. also the wearer can see more than 30 cm good enough without their glasses.
when the rx is higher we can have more image shift with the minus lenses.
onlookers may be unable to experience the feelings of the wearer. when the rx is higher even a slight push around the lenses the image would shift a lot, also with some peripheral distortion.
so that the gwg herself would feel like her vision are really distorting, when her glasses is shifted (either by herself or her partner) it is such a "massage" to her eyes. In my own experience I feel very stimulating, I feel surprised and excited, as if pulling my eyeballs away from and back to my body, and threatened to be back to the unfamiliar blur.
most people at such rx would not be familiar with the blur unless they spend a lot of time without glasses. it is such an emotional shock or stimuli ...
Soundmanpt 15 Jan 2013, 18:30
So they were going for a sisters look it sounds like. Yeah i'm sure her eyes were able to adjust to the glasses without any problem. By the end of each day i'm sure when she took them off everything was blurry at least for a while. At least she knows that if she wants to wear glasses her eyes can tolerate that much prescription, Maybe her friend will let her just keep the glasses if they are a past pair for her?
By the way what you witnessed happens quite often that someone likes the glasses that a friend is wearing and when that person gets new glasses will pass them on to her friend.
gwg-lover 15 Jan 2013, 17:30
I think she wanted to look like her friend because she also wore the same kind of clothes like her. I don`t know if she got glasses herself after wearing her friends but I know that she had no problem with her vision while wearing the glasses.
Soundmanpt 15 Jan 2013, 10:39
You didn't say, but any idea why she wore a friends glasses for 3 days while on of town. It sounds like she kinda wanted to be able to wear glasses but didn't want family and other friends know of her desire? Too bad -1.00 is a very good prescription for someone with perfect vision to wear as first glasses. At the end of 3 days her eyes should have been completely adjusted to them.
gwg-lover 14 Jan 2013, 17:32
Best of all for me is a nice girl who tries on foreign glasses, best with minus-lenses between -2 and -5 diopters and wants to wear them more time.
Once I met a girl who wear glasses from a friend for more than three days during a journey. But they were only about -1 diopter.
lazysiow 12 Dec 2012, 18:15
No THIS is the right idea :) http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v=pkSESOtkRj8&feature=endscreen
lazysiow 12 Dec 2012, 18:15
No THIS is the right idea :) http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v=pkSESOtkRj8&feature=endscreen
gwgs 12 Dec 2012, 04:04
Drat! Only available in the US :(
Can someone download it and upload it to YouTube or somewhere similar so us viewers not in the US of A can watch it?
Wurm 11 Dec 2012, 18:50
I found a Japanese cartoon episode that deals with glasses fetish. Warning: it alludes to explicit situations between two teens (the series is set in a high school) although there isn't any nudity that I can recall.
The plot is pretty funny and really it's a bit of a microcosm about trying to navigate life as a teen with a fetish or discovering that a partner has one.
The show is "Girl's High" and the episode is called "Glasses! Glasses! Glasses!". I watched it on Hulu although that's probably US only:
GL 15 Nov 2012, 06:26
To the other Glasses Lover; send me an email. email@example.com
Glasses Lover 15 Nov 2012, 03:59
Glasses are very sexy!
Glasses Love 15 Nov 2012, 03:57
Hi! I can't believe!
Glasses Lover 27 Aug 2011, 12:14
Sorry, the email address is; firstname.lastname@example.org
Glasses Lover 27 Aug 2011, 12:03
Just last Wednesday I got my latest glasses...
They're -12 and are magnificent. I measured the edge of the lenses and they're 15 millimetres thick! I won't be wearing them, that's for sure. I didn't buy them for that. As a true glasses fetishist I bought them for licking. I even made a video of my first licking. I may post it one day, but not now.
I offer no apologies for what I do to thick glasses. After all, I'm not hurting anyone. Nor is it my intention to cause harm.
For those who are interested, the site I ordered the latest glasses from is; greateyeglasses.com
If you have a glasses licking fetish, then please feel free to email; email@example.com
All emails will be treated with the most strict, private confidenciallity.
Astra 25 Aug 2011, 05:12
For those who would like to see how bad your eyesight is.
You can see the uncorrected image out of your frame. quite eerie to compare with the corrected image. It's like a haunted image.
All4Eyes 10 Aug 2011, 01:11
Looks like ppl are starting to get the idea. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vgOf6BXsUPY&NR=1
Astra 02 Aug 2011, 15:19
trend setters... Clare can be a trend setters if she wish to.
Astra 02 Aug 2011, 15:17
Ha, I can rarely get relaxed enough to observe people around.
But I have an impression , most people looks trendy to me . So I couldn't really care about that as I would run out of time.
ehpc 02 Aug 2011, 14:17
Previous post from me.
02 Aug 2011, 14:16
That's East from here, Astra :) In British terminology 'the Far East', which I suppose is a slightly old British Imperial term.
Astra 02 Aug 2011, 11:04
come West is not a bad idea. Chinese/Japanese are trendy.